.: Steps Towards Marriage :.

This is a continuation for the previous entry, "You Are My Girlfriend".

~ eh, cam pelik je Dato' K pakai sampin! Betul ke mcm tu? ~

I found something to share in islamonline.net


There are three important guidelines for the young Muslims who seek to get married:

1. You should protect your chastity by lowering your gaze when looking at the other gender.

2. You should not seek to know the other gender before you are ready to get married. There is no harm, however, to know about some person before you get engaged to him or her once you are ready to make that step by asking people and collecting information.

3. You should seek to know the other gender only through his or her family.


As you get ready for engagement and then marriage, strengthen yourself through reciting the Qur'an, increasing your knowledge, fasting, performing Qiyam Al-Layl (Night Vigil Prayer), and working with Muslim youth groups in your area. Finally, keep in mind that the primary criterion for choosing your spouse should be religious devotion before anything else.


Hopefully, this explanation can benefit us.


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